You can only be truly guided by the beating of your own heart. What others say or do is of no consequence. Know that many will try to seduce you with what they know. This is for them alone, and has nothing to do with you, just as what you know is yours, and is meant for none other.
Look within yourself for the answers you seek. This is the only place you will find them. Trust your Self.
Your books, your experts, your professionals – these are no more than collections of knowing, spoken by those brave enough to proclaim their own truth. Look to them for inspiration, but know that they must not be adopted as substitutes for your own expression, or the perfection you specifically, have been created to become.